White Men Dating Black Women

I have been reading many articles and some books Attempting to probe into some reason why more and a white men are beginning to date black girls others don't, and why some may still be opposed to it. So first, why are white men dating black women?

My perspective on this subject

As a clarification, I wish to make it clear that I don't try, at least not consciously, to limit myself to solely pursuing black ladies or dating. I would love to think that I am and have been open to dating women from all cultural and racial backgrounds. However, once I did go black, as the popular saying goes, it appears like, at least lately, it's been difficult for me to go back.

I've heard men find many reasons for black women

A lot of those stereotypes may be true and probably contribute to white men wanting to date black women, I think those reasons don't address the reason, which is that differences attract.

This is not to say that women or men and many cities around the world are becoming more diverse, and this relationship has become acceptable and more accessible. The narrowing of gaps between people from different races and cultures in many instances has then also furthered this advancement.

But if I try there is some chemistry that I cannot deny that makes me attracted to black women. This is not to say that I don't find girls from other races and cultures attractive or have chemistry since I do.

However, it is differences and polarity which create passion and tension in relationships. On one hand, the greater differences a couple has in a relationship, the more attraction, passion, and chemistry they could experience together, but on the other hand, the more challenges they will also face in reconciling and learning how to respect those differences. It is, while it is differences which create passion.

Let me just clarify that

As human beings, we are all intrinsically Equal and always more similar than different, but it is important to recognize that it's hence always our failure disrespect to one another and to understand that our differences in a positive way that creates all of our misunderstandings. It's an unresolved misunderstanding that finally creates the conflict in this world all.

So if it is difference that why many guys and women are not dating attract? There are numerous reasons for this.

There are also other reasons that

And while many guys are missing out on the growing Pool of smart, beautiful, educated, successful black girls, sadly there are also those who oppose like Keith Bardwell altogether to the relationship a justice-of-piece who recently opposed to issuing a marriage license.

The reason why some white guys are opposed to the interracial relationship is ignorance, which ultimately stems from insecurities and fears. In Louisiana, as an example, on account of the segregation between white and black race and the history of slavery, racism can be felt even today. Many white men in many parts of Louisiana has grown up seeing the consequences of oppressed, underprivileged, uneducated, and poor black men and women and still ignorantly believe that it's somehow the color of the skin that's the primary cause for their more unfortunate circumstances. And while they are correct, unfortunately in another way it continues to perpetuate their justification for own and racism ignorant prejudices.

So there you have it, a short exploration to some of the reasons why men and black women are currently dating Still missing out, and while white men ignorantly choose not to accept it.